positive thinking? come'on duuude!!!

we get positive vibe not from positive thinking, but from being completely honest..Stop misunderstanding me coz I am not a positive person, and I hate positive thinking. I never encourage others to be positive, never. I encourage all of us to be natural and honest.negativity should always be allowed, if used properly, negativity is tool to bring clear understanding. Mencari hikmah kesulitan seringkali adalah upaya melarikan diri dari kesempatan mengamati langsung ke dalam. Don't solve problem with mind. just let the feel flow, jika marah..marahlah.. breathe and allow the anger to be felt inside.....